Thanks to all for your service and charity,
-Randy
Office Hours: M-F 9:00am-3:30pm
Thanks to all for your service and charity,
-Randy
From Rev. Ara Guekguezian, Interim Pastor
It was a beautiful and relatively cool Wednesday
morning. I was running errands downtown traveling north on O street, approaching Tulare. The signal was green! A rare occurrence, so I accelerated a bit in my excitement at my good fortune. The brake lights of the car just before me lit up. Argh! As we stopped, he in the intersection, I in the crosswalk, I could see and understand. There was a walker crossing against the light, earbuds in both ears, seemingly engrossed in the screen of his phone. Not an unusual moment these days. BUT THAT IS NOT ALL, FOLKS. He stopped, bent down and picked something up from the street. All while the light is red and that little man in the box is red and cars are screeching to a halt and Pastor Ara, a person with a life, is resigning himself to two minutes of waiting through another long cycle— per usual on O at Tulare. Thanks be to God, the man got up, got to the curb, and we slammed on the gas and made it through before the signal bled red.
Driving away, the thought flashed through my head: if this criminal/scofflaw (the nicer descriptives used by my brain in this brief instant) was hit by a motor vehicle and seriously injured, he would have arrived in his own little heaven. Lying in a bed for an extended period of time, maybe for the rest of his life, earbuds in his ears and VR goggles on, not having to move while virtually living, without having to cross streets anymore.
I arrived at the pastor’s office/study, and I was grateful that I still have a life where I want to be fully engaged.
The screens of my life are a nice addition. The phone and the tablet provide certain efficiencies, but my work, my purpose, insists that I remain alert to the other and engage with the other and endeavor to make the other and me, us. Virtual Reality is here in a rudimentary form at present. In a few years, VR and reality may be indistinguishable for some. We have glimpses of it: listening to recorded music, watching worship on TV or the iPad, buying an exercise video (previewing, but never actually responding to the direction of the peppy, bouncing person exhorting to one more rep).
The man in the crosswalk reminded me that Christian community life is still very much a human exercise. The early Church disputes were focused on the nature of the Christ and the constant affirmation of the full humanity of the Word. Jesus saw, spoke, felt, touched, tasted, and heard. Jesus charged us to follow and do likewise. Feeding the hungry, visiting the prisoner in SimCity is not the full expression of faithfulness. Doing it: teaching, leading, singing, feeding, listening, giving, walking with even against the don’t walk signal is.
Grateful to be fully engaged with you as work out whom we are as God’s faith folk in and amongst many who as slowly disengaging from the mess, the joy filled mess, that is this life.
Peace,
Pastor Ara.
As always, we had a blast at the Fresno Rainbow Pride Parade. It took place in the Tower District on June 3rd—but we’re congregationalists, so we’re ready to make anything a celebration, so really, it started on June 1 & 2 while we were setting up the float. On behalf of the Ministry of Outreach, we want to thank everyone involved in the parade. Because of you we were able to spread God’s message of love for all people and bring light, love, and hope to our Fresno LGBTQ+ family and friends.
Here are a few photos from the parade, taken by church member Lori Todd.
Did you miss parade? Local photographer Howard Watkins took photos and has a gallery up on his website.
Starting June 7, a three-part series on Forgiveness will be offered by Jane L. Kuhn LMFT during our Sacred Pursuits time. Explore forgiveness, learn tools to help the process, and heal yourself and your relationships.
Join us at 6:00 on June 7, 14, and 21 in the Heritage Room.
From Jane Kuhn:
Forgiveness Workshop: A psycho-educational/experiential process model
Each year thousands of individuals and couples seek professional help from marriage and family therapists, social workers, spiritual counselors, and other mental health professionals to address issues of concern in their relationship with themselves and others. Forgiveness is a concept frequently used in interpersonal and intrapersonal healing. Forgiveness can be a difficult and complex process involving deep emotional work. Most people, who find it painful to do forgiveness process work alone, are willing to attend a workshop that will educate them, give them specific tools, and involve them in a direct hands-on experience of forgiveness.
This workshop can be presented to individuals and couples to help them learn why forgiveness is an important component to be considered in healing their relationships. Research supports the efficacy of the use of forgiveness interventions in therapeutic settings. Various stage models have been developed and utilized by mental health practitioners. This workshop provides a synthesis of these models and includes a guided visualization technique. The benefits of a physically and psychologically healthier individual and couple relationship may follow with the use of these interventions.
This powerful workshop can be life altering, educating people about what forgiveness is and then giving them tools and a direct experience to help heal at deeper levels. Forgiveness is a step toward peace and reconciliation in our personal lives, our relationships, our community, and our world.
This two-phase workshop, presented in a 3-hour timeframe, targets individuals or married couples who are interested in learning how to heal their relationships, develop a deeper intimacy, and gain specific tools to use in the forgiveness process. The first phase psycho-educational portion of the workshop covers the different aspects and definitions of forgiveness, erroneous myths about forgiveness, and the obstacles and benefits of forgiveness. A step-by-step forgiveness process is described, examples given for each step, and time allowed for questions and answers. Relevant handouts will be available.
The second phase of the workshop consists of guided forgiveness imagery. Individuals and couples will choose personal forgiveness issues to work on incorporating their own spiritual beliefs as desired. During the forgiveness visualization the individuals and couples will be guided through the process by imagery of releasing and transforming emotions of hurt, bitterness, judgment, betrayal, anger, and self-blame. After each of the 3-guided visualizations, time will be given to journal thoughts and feelings. An opportunity for breakout groups and/or voluntary group sharing will be available as well as time for questions. An increase in perceptions of interpersonal and self-forgiveness may follow as well as a sense of hope, peace and gratitude.
There are some secular songs that can stop you in your tracks and hit you with a wave of The Divine. We asked our congregation to share some of their favorite secular songs with a spiritual side. Here’s what they said:
Capital Kings – You’ll Never Be Alone
“It gives encouragement”
Jimmie Rodgers – Kisses Sweeter Than Wine
“It explores the life cycle. [I] first heard [it] sung by Gateway Singers in S.F, 1953.”
The Byrds – Turn! Turn! Turn!
“I believe all is in God’s time. There is a reason—God’s reason!”
Savage Garden – Affirmation
“Such a beautiful song that reminds us that we’re okay, It’s okay. Whatever we’re doing or going through, we’re not alone.”
Coldplay – Yellow
“Makes me think of how much God loves us, the sacrifice of Jesus. I think of Christ singing this song to us.”
Hanson – I Was Born
“We were created with purpose. We aren’t supposed to be anyone but ourselves to fulfill that purpose.”
Do you have any tunes to add to the list? Share them in the comments section!
From Rev. Ara Guekguezian, Interim Pastor
The dusty vehicle under the carport in the back of our property was a much used van to transport Big Red folk, especially children and youth around this gorgeous valley. The van is thirteen years old and is now rarely used. We still make the insurance payment regularly ($700.00 annually). It is concerning to let a vehicle sit idle for weeks on end, especially in the heat, then putting people we love into it for a drive up a mountainside or across town.
The Council made a wise and well considered decision as faithful stewards to divest ourselves from the van. The money saved from insurance, upkeep and sale of the van would be used to rent a new van whenever we need it (for camp, for Kidmunity, for youth activity [hopefully]).
Then, we became aware of the need of our adopted Syrian Refugee family of eight who have a Toyota Corolla. They are unable to go anywhere as a family. They are grateful for an old but useful car, but an old and useful eight passenger van would be much better. They would use the van daily. The disintegration from disuse would be avoided.
Therefore, it was decided by our Council to give the van to our family upon raising $2,400.00, the book value of the vehicle. So we could keep our promise to our ministries for Christian Education, Resources and Outreach: to continue our essential ministries without burdening the financial resources of our congregation.
Give, please!
Now a little opportunity to receive as you give. Pastor Ara was adopted by the Schoelens for an evening (any longer than that requires him to grow out his white beard). At the Grand Banquet of the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, Pastor Ara bid on two wonderful items and ended up with a private wine tasting at Englemann Cellars for him and nine friends, and a tour and tasting at Ficklin Vineyards for him and five friends. PROBLEM: Pastor Ara has no friends, so a ‘sign up’ sheet will be available through June for both tours. You may sign up to join him on either tasting with your name and how much you are willing to pay for a most delightful evening. The top nine bidders for Engelmann and top five for Ficklin will join Pastor Ara on the adventure. All proceeds will go to the Van Fund.
Note: if you wish to buy a new van for the church, DON’T. Give the $32,000.00 instead to the
transportation fund. Invested wisely, it will provide transportation for our Youth, Camp and Kidmunity for twenty years (longer than the life span of a van).
We will gather in the Heritage room at 6 p.m. on Wednesdays, June 7, 14 and 21. Jane’s connection comes out of living an engaged life. Jane picks up her Ooooby box on Wednesdays, and Bitsy, Kymberly, Pat and the Pastor hang out, ready to meet anyone who passes by. One Wednesday, a conversation ensued, and we are now able to receive Jane’s gift.
There is always some Sacred Pursuit on Wednesday evenings at six, even it is just
Pastor Ara. Pastor Ara will be preaching from Genesis quite a bit in August, so he will be
doing a brief study on Walter Brueggemann’s approach to understanding the beginning of the Story of God. Directly following Sacred Pursuits is the popular “Niners” group, led by Pat Reeves. What’s your Ennneagram number? Come joins us to learn more about ourselves through our numbers.
See you Wednesday.
As our summer begins, so do our needs for volunteers to teach our Sunday School classes. Have a special talent you’d like to share? An interesting experience you’d like to provide our kids? Curriculum is provided, but you don’t have to stick to it if you have other info you’d like to share! If interested, please contact Children and Youth Activities Coordinator Scott Hancock. Thanks, and God Bless!